100 Tips for Nannies and Families

The old adage says you shouldn’t judge a book by its cover, but many of us still do so - at least on occasion.  We all have an image in our minds of what the “ideal” nanny should look like - and that image is probably more Mary Poppins than Marilyn Manson.  You’re probably envisioning pink sweaters, not Pink the rock star.

When it comes to nannies, would you hire someone with visible body piercings, tattoos, a Mohawk hairstyle, a punk-rock style, etc.?

Tattoos and body piercings have become increasingly popular in recent years.  Some of this body art is, of course, hidden from view, but others are in plain sight.

Many people are completely in favor of these forms of self-expression.  Further, they believe that nannies, like all of us, are entitled to live their own lives - and as long as they’re great with kids, who cares about the artwork on their bodies? 

These folks base their decision about hiring a caregiver on other criteria that they deem more important, such as the potential nanny’s experience, references, personality, interests, availability and salary requirements.  They may also view this as an opportunity to teach their children valuable lessons about diversity and how it’s OK to look “different.”

Others view tattoos and piercings with disdain, thinking that it’s inappropriate and unprofessional, especially for those in the childcare industry.  They believe that nannies should look - and act - “appropriately,” and have a definite point-of-view about what is - and isn’t - appropriate.    Also, they may view their nanny as an extension of their family, and may want this “family representative” to have a more “professional” appearance.

Are you comfortable hiring a sitter with body piercings or tattoos?  Does image matter to you?  Do you - or your partner - have tattoos and body piercings yourselves? 

And, perhaps most importantly, do you think that your opinion on this subject will influence how your children view - and judge - people based on appearance?