100 Tips for Nannies and Families

The idea of having a “nanny cam” - or a hidden camera - has become quite controversial in recent years.  Some parents think it’s a great way to keep track of their children and their nannies, while others think it’s a blatant invasion of privacy.

Further, some parents are up front about the device, telling their caretaker that they will be using the camera to check in periodically.  Others use it secretly to ensure that their nanny is taking proper care of their children. 

The issue is more of an ethical matter than a legal one.  As long as parents aren’t taping footage of nannies without their consent, nanny cams are legal in all 50 states.  But here’s the moral dilemma:  Should parents tell nannies if they have a nanny cam?

 Many parents are using cameras hidden in teddy bears, houseplants, clocks, etc. to keep tabs on their children… as well as their nannies.  Is this smart parenting or an invasion of privacy?

 Consider the following:

• Have you told your nanny about the camera and use it in a positive way - to see what your children are doing rather than keeping tabs on what your nanny is doing?  Do you check in throughout the day to see your cute kids playing?  Or…
• Are you keeping your “nanny cam” a secret because you don’t trust your childcare provider?  Has she given you any reason to question her capabilities?  Are you worried over news reports about nannies harming babies and want to covertly watch her behavior?

In my line of work, I hear arguments on both side of the debate.  I always encourage honesty between parents and their nannies, and urge parents to hire nannies that they trust to take great care of their children. 

If parents have any reason to doubt their nannies, I recommend that they sit down and have a discussion about these concerns.  I counsel them to trust their instincts - if they’re still uncomfortable about something even after talking to their nanny about it, then it’s time to consider other childcare options.